Meh, 3D isn't anything I'm looking at right now or the near future. 3D for video games has a long long way to go before it's anything close to being good.
As for how good this game looks, I happy with the improvements they've been making and hopefully it continues to improve. I remember playing golf on Nintendo back in the early 90's and to see how far gaming technology has come in 20 years is very impressive to say the least. I think it's why us 40something year olds still play video games
I also max setting and resolution. You just have to. If you didn't, it would be like going to see a movie and keeping one eye closed. You're not getting the full enjoyment out of it that you could be. If you have an older system and it can't handle it, give up the fast food for a few months and get a video card, you'll be glad you did.