I agree that the home course should choose conditions. I'm not going to enforce it, unless we play online together, but I'm going to play my two 'home' rounds at Carroch Loch with the following conditions:
1st Round: Gusty, Hard Ground, Medium Pins, Stimp 10, No gimmes, Variable (Overcast), Chance of Rain, Active Weather ON.
2nd Round: Windy, Hard Ground, Difficult Pins, Stimp 8, No gimmes, Variable (Overcast), Chance of Rain, Active Weather ON.
I will play at least one solo round at the course before these rounds, though, as I haven't even played the course yet! If my opponents are game, whomever plays first can choose either of the two conditions (or whatever other conditions you want).